If you
are a follower of this blog you will have picked up these points about my two
children:
a. They are very different, both
in looks and personality. The term chalk and cheese couldn’t be more perfect
when it comes to describing my two.
b. I rarely manage to snag a good
photo of the two of them together. They are often just not phyiscailly in the
same space and when they are, Harper is usually mauling Finn with her over
affection that he is screaming. Not great photo material.
So
when I walked in on the above play scenario between Finn and Harper, I
scrambled to get my camera and snapped away like a mad woman. My camera
settings were all out but I had to let it all go and just make sure I captured this
moment. It may need a little explaining: Harper is all about imaginative/role
play at the moment. She mainly likes to take on occupations and act out their
work tasks. This week she has been a hairdresser, a cafe owner and a doctor. Today
though she was a make-up artist, applying lipstick on her brother. Ordinarily, this
would be a pretty cute moment but it was so much more for me coming from my two
kids. Finn prefers his own space, doesn’t like to be touched and whenever role
play is happening he likes to set the scene. To allow the play to be directed
by his younger sister, to allow her to touch him and by golly just the fact
that they were playing together meant this was a huge deal.
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{Finn, looking quite tense but going with it regardless.} |
While
we have been at Mum’s, to my complete surprise, there have actually been lots of
moments like this. Quiet, co-operative play. Screaming, crying, snatching?
Nope, haven’t seen any of that so far. I’m sure my Mum thinks I am exaggerating
the truth when I drone on and on about their play difficulties when we are
home, as right now all she has seen are two siblings who love each other and
enjoy each other’s company. Trust me Mum, I ain’t stretching the truth. Whatever
is happening, I am watching it and loving it.
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{Oh look! Another play moment!} |